May 9th, the ZdK called for the admittance of “remarried” divorcees to the sacraments, for an acceptance of all forms of cohabitation, for the blessing of homosexual couples, and for a “reconsidering of the question of contraception.”
The first bishop to denounce the ZdK’s “very troubling” document was the 49-year-old Bishop of Passau in Southern Germany, Stefan Oster who posted his opposition to his FaceBook page. “The approval of the requests of the ZdK would mean a dramatic change of much that has been held to be valid concerning marriage and sexuality,” he said. “The Church believes… that lived sexual practice has its only legitimate place within a marriage between a man and a woman, both of whom are open to the procreation of life and both of whom have made a bond that lasts until the death of one of the spouses.” He noted that God binds the relationship and makes it “indissoluble.”—ibid., LifeSiteNews.
Bishop Oster warned that “sexual practice outside of marriage is either fornication or adultery” noting that there are “very dramatic consequences to come for those who partake in it.”—ibid.
Bishop Oster’s criticism garnered a strong rebuke from the ZdK, however it was followed with a public show of support from five German bishops, the majority 60 and under (Where were the rest of the German hierarchs?).—LifeSiteNews.
LifeSiteNews notes that the five supportive bishops are all younger. That is, they do not belong to the cadre of German Dissenting Dinosaurs who reared their ugly heads at the Synod On The Family and tried to impose an agenda of a go-along-to-get-along pastoral practice on the Church of God.
Perhaps catechists can find additional ways of providing parents with a better vocabulary that enables them to communicate love and respect for the person, which necessarily includes an objective appreciation of a child's behaviour, and which gives parents the language that helps them provide fraternal correction of a child or sibling or friend or neighbour whose behaviour is risky for both body and soul.
While he was still speaking to the people, behold, his mother and his brethren stood outside, asking to speak to him. But he replied to the man who told him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brethren?” And stretching out his hand toward his disciples, he said, “Here are my mother and my brethren! For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother, and sister, and mother.”
God gives to all who ask the grace to live the Gospel. By surrendering to the voice of a culture that substitutes worldly (temporary) approval for God's path to life, the concerned parent must then contend with the doubt created in their minds for having blessed a child's wayward choices instead of risking the tough love of a parent who is concerned with the eternal destiny of their child's soul.
A child who is not provided the healthy boundaries of the Gospel, even an adult child, will follow other "rules" that unhinge the mind and heart and leave it vulnerable to worldly values that rob the person of his or her dignity. A timid parent who resorts to the sophistry of 'Oh, we don't want to impose our values on our child... we want her to discover things for herself' are only demonstrating a sly indifference. Current times are saturated with parents who do not know better and have no inclination of wanting to know better to help their children grow into adults capable of loving authentically another person and capable of sustaining a lifelong commitment.
I am astonished that you are so quickly deserting him who called you in the grace of Christ and turning to a different gospel—not that there is another gospel, but there are some who trouble you and want to pervert the gospel of Christ. But even if we, or an angel from heaven, should preach to you a gospel contrary to that which we preached to you, let him be accursed. As we have said before, so now I say again, If any one (the ZdK?) is preaching to you a gospel contrary to that which you received, let him be accursed.
Am I now seeking the favor of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still pleasing men, I should not be a servant of Christ. (Letter to the Galatians, 1:6-10).
The true light that enlightens every man was coming into the world. He was in the world, and the world was made through him, yet the world knew him not. He came to his own home, and his own people received him not. But to all who received him, who believed in his name, he gave power to become children of God; who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.—St. John 1:6-10
For the person united to Christ, for the person whose priority is Christ first, all other relationships find meaning because they are grounded not in the avoidance of peer pressure and family quirks but in the love of God. To the one who trusts in God and seeks first His will and conforms his or her life to His commandments, God showers grace, peace and joy in abundance. Trust in God always!